

These vibrators are angled to reach the so-called G-spot, which is an area located on the internal upper vaginal wall that can sometimes feel good when pressed against. G-spot vibrators are for folks looking to explore G-spot stimulation, as the name suggests. From there, experiment with different motions that feel good, and definitely consider using it on other areas as well, such as around the vulva, to find any other unsuspecting sweet spots. Play with the different settings, preferably starting off slow, and apply pressure to the clit. Once you're already sufficiently turned on, apply some lube to both your clit and the bullet. Stewart notes that sometimes clitoral size is an indicator of what kind of vibrator you may like: "If you have a smaller clitoris, you may enjoy more bullet-type vibes," she says, and if you have a larger clitoris, "you may want to try a suction/air pulse vibe." Of course, you can definitely try both, too, if you want! Again, because bullets are nice and small, you can incorporate them into everything from solo play to intercourse, experimenting with different settings and speeds. They're primarily used for clitoral stimulation, but Stewart adds that you can use a bullet vibrator around other parts of your body, too, to start getting used to the sensation. "If it's your first, I would start with a bullet," Fleming says.


They're small, discreet, and not intimidating, making them great to experiment with. Getting to know a new toy also offers a chance to get to know your body better, which will help you learn more about yourself and what you like.īullet vibes are a great option for anyone starting to dip into the world of sex toys. You can angle it directly toward the back of your vagina to maximize the feelings of fullness, or you can angle it to press against the upper wall of the vagina, toward your stomach, which is the area often referred to as the G-spot.Īs you get more comfortable with the toy you have (and we'll get into more specifics below), you can experiment with different positions, like standing or sitting up, as well as different motions and techniques. In the case of a toy like a dildo or a G-spot vibrator, you'll insert the vibrator into your vaginal opening and thrust it in and out at the desired speed and pressure. In this case, you'll hold it against the clit and make any motions that feel good to you, which could include running it along the length of the clitoral hood, tapping it against the glans (head) of the clitoris, making circular motions around it, or simply holding it in place pressed against clitoris or the vulva area. Some vibrators, like bullets and wands, are primarily for clitoral stimulation.

Depending on what kind of vibrator you're using, the technique will be a little different, according to licensed psychologist and AASECT-certifed sex therapist Megan Fleming, Ph.D.
